Day Seven

So why not use a chastity cage? Lock myself up, give the key to a friend (or post it to myself), and then forget about my cock for a month? I'd save myself a ton of time spent edging, and a lot of frustration when I have to stop just before that point of no return.

If this challenge was just about not cumming, then that would probably be sensible - maybe not healthy, but sensible. But this challenge for me is about control - I love control and I love to be in control. Using a chastity cage robs me of that control.

And it feels awesome. Even if you're not abstaining this month, when you wank, it's not just the cumming that feels good, it's the build-up, it's each stroke that inches you a little closer to release, it's the feeling of anticipation, it's the fantasy playing out in your head, it's every sensation coursing through your body and your brain that signposts your next explosive orgasm. And even if you pull back from that final release, you've still had an enjoyable couple of hours - almost certainly better than watching a film or catching up on some gardening.

Finally of course, erections are healthy - it's good to get hard and get some blood flowing around down there.

So guys, if you're using a chastity cage to get through no-nut November, then good on you for doing what you need to do to succeed at this challenge. It's just not for me.