Day Thirteen

I've been thinking today about this challenge as a game. Within a game, you intentionally restrict your behaviours to those allowed by the rules. For example, when playing poker, you could just pick out cards from the deck that would give you the best hand. However, we choose to restrict the cards in our hand to those dealt to us by the dealer. And if playing strip poker, not only do you only remove clothes when you lose, but you only remove them one at a time.

So if you're planning to have sex with your fellow strip poker players, why not just strip off and get down to it? Because those are the rules of the game, and the sex after the game is going to be more fun for following those rules and building up some anticipation and sexual tension first.

So isn't no-nut November the same kind of thing, but on a grander scale? That's certainly the way I'm thinking about it. By choosing not to wank myself to completion this month, I'm going to enjoy the release when it comes all the more. Enough more to make it worth a month's abstention? I guess I'll only find that out in December. All I can really say is that I'm loving how quickly and easily I can get hard and close to release when I edge - when I was wanking once a day (or sometimes more frequently), I was getting to the point where I was just going through the motions and not appreciating the load I was shooting, whereas now each edging session is properly - and ball-achingly - intense. How will it feel when I actually cum, given that even an edging session feels better than a lot of my previous releases? I'm not even halfway through the month and I can't wait to find out!